to blog about Rihanna and Chris Brown. Virtually all of the coverage of this "incident" has been distasteful, stereotypical, and all-around disheartening. Rihanna is caught in the double bind of having to either forgive Brown or demonstrate her strength and independence by rejecting him. Brown is often constructed as having been exposed to negative, violent, hypermasculine influences that tacitly pushed him to commit abuse.
I do think this issue is salient, especially as it exists at a nexus of cultural complexities, including abusive intimate partnerships, gender representations in mass media, and expectations of public figures who exist in a popular cult(ure) of celebrity, but I have no interest in perpetuating the "bad" discussions surrounding it. I was intrigued, then, when I saw this article in the New York Times, entitled "Teenage Girls Stand By Their Man."* This article is full of assumptions about 'how girls think,' as individuals and members of a collective girl culture, but it raises a lot of great points for further, more productive discussion about intimate partner violence and the reality of this particular example as spectacle. It's a piece that might be fruitful for discussion in the college classroom, especially.
*See if you can spot the nod to "girls' bedroom culture" (I concede the high nerd-factor in this asterisk point).
Maiden, Mother and Crone by Vianny Nunez
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